As I have mentioned. At the Thursday appointment we were told that the b-mom is measuring a little small for how many weeks she is. They said she should have an ultrasound right away just to make sure everything is OK. I have been going back and forth between freaking out, and listening to what other people are saying, which is that everything will be fine.
Well, I got a call from b-mom on Saturday. She said that she could not get a sitter for Monday, and wondered if we could do the ultrasound next week or the week after. I said I thought it sounded like something that should be done right away. I told her it should not be a problem that she does not have a sitter because she had brought the kids to the other appointment and between her, and Joe and I we can keep an eye on them. I told her that if it was a matter of gas money, that we could help her out. She didn't say anything. I asked her when her other doctors appointment was this week and she said Tuesday. I said we could do the ultra sound the same day and she said that sounded great. I told her I would call first thing Monday morning and try to get us an appointment for Tuesday. So, I called this morning and cancelled today's appointment and set up another one for tomorrow afternoon. I started to call b-mom early this morning and have called about every half hour since. But her phone goes right to voicemail, like it's not turned on. When it got to be afternoon I emailed my SW and asked her if she could try to get a hold of b-mom's SW, so she could try to call her where she is living. I have yet to hear back from them.
Now that I can't get a hold of b-mom I a freaking out. I am wondering if she is mad at me for pushing her to do the ultra sound. She just moved and I am wondering if she lost her charger and now her phone is dead. I don't know if she is keeping her phone off until after Tuesday, so I can't confirm the appointment with her. On top of this I have to confirm the appointment with my bosses, and Joe needs to figure it out for his work. So if she can go, or can't go I just need to know! This is starting to stress me out, and I wish she would just call. I bet everything is just fine and she will call me later and say that she will be there tomorrow. In the mean time I am a mess! Oh well, after tomorrows appointment I think I will take a step back. I am not even sure why her doctor was pushing me to set up the appointment in the first place!
I will update later!
Yep, turns out it was nothing! b-mom's cell phone was dead and she didn't know. Her SW called her and then b-mom called me. She will be there tomorrow and I can not wait for this ultrasound! Wooo Hooo
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